Bertha and Her Baptism Part 15
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The pastors now adjourned their session under the maples, and repaired to the room where their wives were sitting. The ladies had finished their deliberations, and had been strolling in the woods. But they, too, had been engaged, like their husbands, in conversation about their children, and the children of the church. "Maternal a.s.sociations" had been the chief topic. They had discussed their advantages, and had considered objections to them. The result was, that they had unanimously agreed to promote such a.s.sociations in their respective churches. Their influence on young mothers, in helping them to train their children, affording them the results of experience gained by others; the privilege of stating difficult and trying cases for advice, of praying together for their children, of having those mothers, during the intervals of their monthly meetings, pray for the children of their sisters, and sometimes, specially, for a child in peculiar need of prayer, commended these a.s.sociations to their judgment and affections. One lady referred to the possible disclosure of family secrets, at such meetings, which it was unpleasant to hear, and to the undesirableness of revealing the faults of a child. They agreed that these things should never be done, and that it was easy to avoid them by employing a friend, if necessary, to state the case, hypothetically, so as to conceal its connection with any member of the circle. The ladies had gone so far as to adopt a little manual, for their respective circles, which they submitted to their husbands for criticism. One of the gentlemen read it, as follows:
"MATERNAL a.s.sOCIATIONS.
"Maternal a.s.sociations are designed for mutual instruction and consultation, in connection with united prayer. Subjects for reading and discussion relate chiefly to the physical, mental, moral, and religious training of children. Some individual is usually prepared at each meeting to give method and tone to the conversation, which might otherwise become desultory. The faults of children who are known to the members are _not_ made the subject of remark; but cases of difficulty are so presented as to avoid individual exposure. a.s.sociations conducted on these principles are found to be greatly beneficial.
"CONSt.i.tUTION OF----CHURCH MATERNAL a.s.sOCIATION.
"Impressed with a sense of our entire dependence upon the Holy Spirit to aid us in training up our children in the way they should go, and hoping to obtain the blessing of such as fear the Lord and speak often to one another, we, the subscribers, do unitedly pledge ourselves to meet at stated seasons for prayer and mutual counsel in reference to our maternal duties and responsibilities. With a view to this object, we adopt the following const.i.tution:
"ARTICLE I. This circle shall be called the 'Maternal a.s.sociation of----Church;' any member of which, sustaining the maternal relation, may become a member by subscribing this const.i.tution. Other individuals, sustaining the same relation, may be admitted to members.h.i.+p by a vote of two thirds of the members present.
"ART. II. The monthly meetings of this a.s.sociation shall be held on the----of the month.
"ART. III. The quarterly meetings in January, April, July, and October, shall be held on the last Wednesday of the month, when the members shall be allowed to bring to the place of meeting such of their children as may be under the age of twelve years, and they shall be considered members of the a.s.sociation. The exercises at these meetings shall be such as shall seem best calculated to instruct the minds and interest the feelings of the children who may be present.
"ART. IV. At each quarterly meeting there shall be a small contribution by the children for benevolent purposes.
"ART. V. The time appropriated for each meeting shall not exceed one hour and a half, and shall be exclusively devoted to the object of the a.s.sociation. Every monthly meeting shall be opened by prayer and reading a portion of Scripture, which may be followed by reading such other matter as relates to the interests of the a.s.sociation, or by conversation tending to promote maternal faithfulness and piety. These exercises may be interspersed with singing the songs of Zion, and with humble and importunate prayer, that G.o.d would glorify himself in the early conversion of the children of the a.s.sociation, that they may become eminently useful in the church of Christ. It is desirable that the last meeting in the year be spent in reading the Scriptures and in prayer.
"ART. VI. Every member of the a.s.sociation shall be considered as sacredly bound to pray _for_ her children daily, and _with_ them as often as circ.u.mstances will permit; and to give them from time to time the best religious instruction of which she is capable.
"ART. VII. It shall be the duty of every member to qualify herself, by daily reading, prayer, and self-discipline, to discharge faithfully the arduous duties of a Christian mother; and she shall be requested to give with freedom such hints upon the various subjects brought before the a.s.sociation as her own observation and experience may suggest.
"ART. VIII. When any mother is removed by death, it shall be the special duty of the a.s.sociation to regard with peculiar interest the spiritual welfare of her children, and to evince this interest by a continued remembrance of them in their prayers, by inviting them to attend quarterly meetings, and by such tokens of sympathy and kindness as their circ.u.mstances may render proper.
"ART. IX. Every child, upon leaving the a.s.sociation, at the prescribed age, shall receive a book from the mothers, as a token of their affection, to be accompanied by a letter, expressive of the deep interest felt in their temporal and spiritual welfare.
"ART. X. The officers of the a.s.sociation shall be a 'First Directress,'
a 'Second Directress,' a 'Secretary,' and a 'Corresponding Secretary,'
who shall be appointed annually in September.
"ART. XI. The duty of the First Directress shall be to preside at all meetings, call upon the members for devotional exercises, and regulate the reading. In the absence of the First Directress, these duties shall devolve upon the Second Directress.
"ART. XII. It shall be the duty of the Secretary to register the names of the members, and of their children, and to supply each of the mothers with a list of the same, together with a copy of the const.i.tution. She shall also keep a record of the proceedings of each meeting, and, as far as may be convenient, of the topic discussed, and of the remarks elicited by it. This record shall be read at the commencement of the next subsequent meeting. She shall likewise receive the contributions of the children, keep an account of the same, and pay it according to the vote of the a.s.sociation.
"ART. XIII. It shall be the duty of the Corresponding Secretary to write the letters addressed to the children upon leaving the a.s.sociation, to conduct the general correspondence, receive the contributions from the mothers, and purchase the books to be given to the children.
"ART. XIV. Any article of this const.i.tution may be amended by a majority of the members present at any annual meeting.
"It is recommended to the members of the a.s.sociation to observe the anniversary of the birth of each child in special prayer, with particular reference to that child. May He who giveth liberally, and upbraideth not, ever preside in our meetings, and grant unto each of us a teachable, affectionate, and humble temper, that no root of bitterness may spring up to prevent our improvement, or interrupt our devotions.
The promise is to us and to our children; we have publicly given them up to G.o.d; his holy name has been p.r.o.nounced over them; let us see to it that we do not cause this sacred name to be treated with contempt. May Christ put his own spirit within us, that our children may never have occasion to say,
'_What do ye more than others?_'"
No criticism was made upon this production, but the pastors commended it, and rejoiced in the good which an increased attention to the subject would be sure to accomplish. They promised to preach on the subject, and, in their pastoral visits, to encourage mothers in the churches to join the a.s.sociations.
One of the ladies said that she had a paper, which she had thought best to read, if the company pleased, when they were all together, and she had therefore reserved it until the gentlemen came in.
It was a paper in the handwriting of a Christian friend, which was found in her copy of the "Articles and Covenant" of her church, after her decease. This lady had been in the habit, as it seemed, of reading over those articles and the covenant, on the Sabbath when the Lord's Supper was to be administered; and the religious education of her children, being identified with her most sacred thoughts and moments, she read these questions at the same time.
The lady who read them said that it was proposed by some to append them to the little manual already presented for Maternal a.s.sociations.
"QUESTIONS TO BE THOUGHT UPON.
"1. Have I so prayed for my children as that my prayer produced an effect upon myself?
"2. Have I realized that to train my children for usefulness and heaven is probably the chief duty G.o.d requires of me?
"3. Have I realized that, if I cannot eradicate an evil habit, probably no one else can or will?
"4. Have I granted to-day, from indulgence, what I denied yesterday from principle?
"5. Have I yielded to importunity in altering a decision deliberately made?
"6. Have I punished the beginning of an evil habit?
"7. Have I suffered the indulgence of an evil habit through sloth or discouragement?
"8. Have calmness and seriousness marked my looks, tones, and voice, when inflicting punishment?
"9. Was my convenience, or the guilt of the child, the measure of its punishment?
"10. Has punishment been sufficiently private, and have I tried to affect the mind more than the body?
"11. Do my children see in me a self-command which is the effect of principle?
"12. Have I, in my plans, my heart, and conduct, sought first for my children the kingdom of G.o.d?
"13. Have I commended G.o.d to my children, and my children to G.o.d?
"14. Have I aimed to govern my children on the same principle and in the same spirit which G.o.d adopts in the government of his creatures?
"15. Have I, in pursuance of the above resolution, acted in the spirit of that prayer in G.o.d's word, 'Them that honor me, I will honor, and they that despise me shall be lightly esteemed'?
"16. Have I aimed to secure the love and obedience of my children?
"17. Have I remembered that it is full time to make a child obey when it knows enough to disobey?
"18. Do I realize that the fulfilment of covenant promises is dependent on my fidelity? Gen. 18: 19.
"19. Have these resolutions been undertaken in the strength of Christ, remembering 'I can do all things through Christ which strengthened me'?
"20. Have I labored to convince my child that its true character is formed by its thoughts and affections?
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